Owlice - Before she was born, I kept thinking of all the things I get to teach her and share with her - going to the beach, camping, hiking, first views through the telescope, ect. Then it occurred to me that I was wishing time away. I decided that I should focus on the "moment" and enjoy each day. After she was born and parenting began I found this mindset to feel even more "right" than I could have possibly imagined. I find myself both fascinated and enthralled with every new thing she learns or does, even things that might be unnoticeable small to anyone besides her parents.
At the same time, in the wee corners of my mind, I still can't help but look forward...maybe just a bit.
I think that is fine as long as I don't sacrifice the moment.
Chris - "Solstice Tree," I like it. I have similar views of the holiday. I am not a religious person either; I have always enjoyed the holiday for bringing together family and friends. The cultural elements (Tree, lights, ect) have sentimental value as they remind me of my childhood.
Bystander - great comic. Sums up my take on the holiday quite well. I made a point to check out the strip; I think it's my new "nerd" comic, right next to XKCD in my bookmark folder. Thanks for sharing!
I will post a picture of my Solstice Tree soon. Now, if you'll excuse me, I have more Solstice Lights to put on my house..